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The Secret to Giving Feedback Without Triggering Defensiveness

October 21, 2025 by tig
Situation, Behavior, Impact

The right kind of feedback can transform teams, while the wrong kind erodes trust and performance. SBI, which stands for Situation–Behavior–Impact, is a structured way to give feedback that’s clear, non-defensive, and actionable.

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